Clinical Supervisor at License to Freedom’s Family Therapy Services
Working with families who are experiencing domestic violence can be difficult, as we don’t often get a sense of resolution or completion. Often, our relationships end by circumstance, whether that’s a client moving, the situation de-escalating “enough,” or a court mandate coming to a close. Sometimes I dream of being a broommaker, someone who sits throughout the day and weaves straws together to create a finished object for people to use. Therapy is far less concrete than that, and I don’t get to go home knowing that I finished making five brooms today.
The joy, however, comes from those occasional moments when we hear back from a client or family we worked with and learn that things have improved for them. I was lucky enough to have that opportunity recently.
I met this person shortly after she arrived in the U.S., having recently left a very violent relationship and carrying significant questions about the course of her life. In our work together, we explored the effects of that relationship on her life, the impact of her family history on her present day, and the ways she hoped to engender change, not just in her own life, but in the lives of her family and broader community. Both during and after the time we met, she got a job, learned how to drive and received her permit, navigated challenging roommate issues with grace and care, purchased her own car, and enrolled in college. She identified family members who were supportive and stayed in contact with them, while maintaining respectful relationships with those whose voices at times carried judgment.
Moments like these provide the necessary fuel and energy to continue the work with others who are at different places in their journey. They also are important moments to hold with humility, and resist the urge to claim their victories as our own. But, they can still be celebrated – both with joy and sometimes with baklava.
This month, what stayed with me most was not a meeting or a milestone, but a letter.
I received a message from a member I had worked with closely, and as I read it, I had to pause. It reminded me why this work matters, especially on the days when it feels heavy or routine. The member entered the program during one of the most vulnerable moments of her life. She was navigating housing instability, caring for her children, recovering from trauma, and learning how to manage a new disability. Anyone in that position would feel overwhelmed.
What stood out to me was not only her gratitude, but what she noticed. She shared that she felt safe asking questions and reassured instead of rushed. She felt respected, not judged, during a time when asking for help can feel uncomfortable. Reading her words reminded me how meaningful simple actions can be, such as listening, showing patience, and showing up consistently.
In this work, we often focus on outcomes like housing stability, completed care plans, and successful discharges. Those outcomes matter. But just as important is how people feel throughout the process. This experience reminded me that being present, validating concerns, and treating someone with dignity can have a lasting impact when someone is trying to rebuild their life.
This moment reaffirmed something I continue to learn in this role. People may not remember every service they received, but they will always remember how they were treated. That is something I will carry with me into every interaction moving forward.
Letter from client:
To Whom It May Concern,
I am writing to express my deep gratitude for Ziad Eskharia, my housing navigator at
Licensed Freedom. From the beginning to now, Ziad has been there for me every step of the
way.
I came to Licensed Freedom in a very vulnerable place. I am a single mother of three
children, fleeing domestic violence, and dealing with a new seizure disability. Ziad helped
me understand the program and guided me through it with patience and care. He never
made me feel bad about needing services. He was there to truly help and support me.
Ziad was understanding and empathic and answered all my questions. I remember
whenever I asked him something, he would say “That’s a really good question” – he never
made me feel like I was bothering him. Whenever I thanked him, he would respond with
“That’s the least I can do” in such a genuine way. He really cared about my case and my
situation.
Ziad’s support made a real difference during one of the most challenging times in my life. His kindness and dedication to helping families like mine is exactly what people need when they’re trying to rebuild their lives.
Thank you for having someone like Ziad on your team.
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Every contribution, no matter the size, helps us provide shelter, legal support, and mental health services for families rebuilding their lives after violence.
Donating to License to Freedom isn’t just about money — it’s about solidarity. Your support directly funds culturally competent counseling, language access services, and emergency relief for those facing unimaginable hardships. Together, we can build a community where safety and dignity are non-negotiable. Join us in creating a future where survivors don’t just survive — they thrive.
When words aren’t enough, the body still remembers. That’s why License to Freedom offers trauma-informed yoga sessions to help survivors reconnect with themselves — gently and safely.
Our weekly yoga classes are led by certified instructors trained in trauma-sensitive approaches. These sessions are more than movement; they are a space for grounding, breathing, and reclaiming control over one’s body. For many participants, this has been a life-changing way to reduce anxiety, improve sleep, and feel supported in a community that understands. Healing isn’t linear — but you don’t have to go through it alone.
At License to Freedom, we believe that true empowerment starts with education. For many refugee women, legal systems in a new country can be intimidating — but knowledge builds confidence.
Body (placeholder style): Since 2002, our organization has provided workshops and legal literacy programs designed specifically for survivors of domestic violence and forced migration. Through culturally sensitive education, we equip women with the tools they need to navigate family law, immigration processes, and their rights to protection. Our bilingual team ensures that no one is left behind — every woman deserves to be heard, to be safe, and to be free.
